Being Together

I believe life is a journey to achieve one's potential. It is about learning new things and adapting to new situations. It is about meeting new people and learning to live with them. At the same time, it is about having faith and being stead fast. It is about anchoring oneself in values and keeping them constant amidst the change around you.

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Location: Mumbai, Maharashtra, India

Sunday, February 25, 2007

Life in transition

Arranged marriage is a tricky affair. The day my parents started looking for a match, I had this strange feeling taking over me. How could someone choose a life partner after talking to someone for few minutes? On top of it many elders in my family scared me by saying that it was the biggest gamble I was to take in my life.

I met Sumit Kaur Kohli in Chandigarh's Sector 34 Gurudwara. I was impressed with her education and attitude towards life. She was simple and exhibited maturity that I was looking for in my life partner. It did not take much thought to decide in her favor.

Next day, both families had a simple roka ceremony in the same Sector 34 gurudwara where Sumit and I had first met. It symbolized an important transition in my life. From bachelorhood I am now moving towards a completely different phase, with someone new to accompany me.